If you run with your heart you’ll never stop.
plus sized models are JUST as unrealistic as skinny models.
They have been elongated, their cellulite has been brushed out, waists pinched and hips widened and rounded.
It makes us think “I’m not even plus sized pretty” when NO-ONE IS.
They aren’t being forward thinking.
They aren’t embracing body positivity
They’re just creating another unrealistic standard for women to hate themselves for.
This is the best transformation picture ever
Is there a reason I cannot just reply to messages anymore, but am required to post them? Did I forget how to use Tumblr?
Sure thing! I have always been very specific about how my house should be kept. I got really sick last year. I had to learn really quickly that sometimes you have to put things on the back burner. That thing ended up being my house. It was hard at first. Sometimes is still is.
If people can’t understand that, it’s their problem. I survived the day. That was my goal. That dirty dish in my sink has no affect on their life. If they have a problem with it they can leave, or clean it themselves.
Until someone goes through what you are going through they cannot understand. (Some will try. I’m thankful for those few.) They are placing judgments based on limited information and small mindedness, and that is their problem. Don’t take that on too.
I just try to give them grace. I hope they never have to know what it is to go through what I’m going through. I started reminding myself I am happy for them, that they don’t understand.
Remember to give yourself grace too. If you look back and can say, “I gave that day all I had,” celebrate your accomplishment. Whether you did anything or not. Dishes be damned! You made it through the day. Here’s to you!